FAQs

What Is PTBM?

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Parent Training in Behavior Management (PTBM) is an evidence-based, skills-focused approach that teaches caregivers how to support their child’s behavior and development through consistent, practical strategies.

Rather than working with a child in isolation, PTBM empowers parents to understand what drives behavior and teach alternative, replacement behaviors. Using structure, routines, and reinforcement, parents can resond consistently and confidently in everyday situations. 

PTBM is rooted in developmental science and behavioral research and is designed to be applied in real-life family settings.

AAP Recommendation: Why is PTBM the First-Line?

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The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends PTBM as a first-line approach for young children experiencing behavioral challenges and ADHD-related concerns—often prior to diagnosis or medication, particularly for children under age 7.

This recommendation reflects strong evidence that parent-implemented strategies lead to meaningful, lasting change. With early skill-building, the concerns of escalation reduce over time. Through PTBM, families benefit from practical tools they can use immediately.

Bottom line: PTBM supports children’s development while also strengthening the parent-child relationship.

When Is PTBM Especially Helpful?

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PTBM is often beneficial when families notice:

  • Frequent meltdowns, defiance, or power struggles

  • Difficulty with transitions, routines, or compliance

  • Challenges with attention, impulse control, or emotional regulation

  • Executive functioning skill gaps (planning, organization, follow-through)

  • Parent overwhelm or uncertainty about how to respond effectively

Because PTBM does not require a diagnosis, families can access support early, before concerns intensify.

What Makes PTBM Different From “Quick Fix” Advice?

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Parenting advice is everywhere—but much of it is inconsistent, viral or trendy, unrealistic, or not developmentally appropriate.

PTBM stands apart because it is evidence-based, not trend-based. Our parent training is developmentally informed and tailored to the child’s age and skills. PTBM provides the parent with structured and teachable behavior management skills, not vague or punitive measures. Our practice is empowering, helping parents feel confident rather than blamed.

Through PTBM, parents learn why strategies work, not just what to try.

How does PTBM Support the Whole Family?

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Unlike other settings, PTBM supports the whole family as a unit. When parents receive effective training and coaching, children develop stronger regulation and coping skills. Daily routines become more predictable and manageable. Stress and conflict in the home decrease. Parents feel more confident and connected to their child

These changes often create a foundation that supports success across home, school, and social environments.

Why Should I Start with PTBM?

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PTBM is not about labeling children or pathologizing behavior. It is about understanding development, building skills, and supporting families with practical tools that work.

For many children and families, starting with PTBM can prevent the need for more intensive interventions later—or ensure that future supports are better informed and more effective.

What Makes Our PTBM Approach Different?

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At Capable Child Family Coaching, Parent Training in Behavior Management (PTBM) is delivered through a faith-informed, family-centered lens. Our work integrates Christian values, including mercy, discipline, stewardship, and respect for each child’s inherent worth.

We believe children are intentionally and uniquely created, and that understanding behavior begins with seeing the whole child as God designed him or her—not just challenges or skill gaps. Faith-informed support emphasizes relationships and hope, while remaining firmly grounded in evidence-based, developmentally appropriate strategies.

Faith integration is optional and parent-directed and may include values-based reflection, encouragement, or language that aligns with a family’s beliefs. All services remain focused on parent education, skill-building, and practical application in daily routines, and do not include religious counseling or psychotherapy. Services focus on parent education, coaching, and skill-building and do not include counseling or diagnosis